1. What made the best sex partner you’ve ever had so good?
Communication, openness to try things, and a sense of fun. Being able to laugh in the bedroom is sexy. It should be fun. If it isn’t fun it isn’t going to be any good and then what’s the point?
2. What made the worst sex partner you’ve ever had so bad?
The worst? Hmm… Would have to say lack of consideration for me and making sure I was enjoying it. It was bad that every time left me unsatisfied. I may not be the easiest to bring to orgasm. but satisfying me in other ways, making sure I enjoy it, really isn’t that difficult a task.
3. Who was the most physically attractive person you ever had sex with?
This is a difficult one. The more you love someone the more attractive they look to you. I dated a guy for several years and thought he was it. He was smart and handsome and I thought the world of him. A few years after we had broken up I was looking at some pictures and wondered what the hell I saw in this guy. I didn’t find him attractive at all then. That’s when I really understood the saying of love being blind. Just goes to show what our hearts and minds are capable of.
4. How was it?
It was great until it wasn’t.
5. Who was the least attractive person you ever had sex with?
There has to be something attractive about them to me. It doesn’t have to be something everyone finds attractive, just something for me. It could be something as simple as the way he talks or smiles or looks at me. Physical beauty isn’t as important as inner beauty. That being said, I did once have sex with a very unattractive man on both levels. One’s common sense can become greatly impaired when drinking.
6. Why did you do it?
Alcohol was involved. Copious quantities of alcohol…
7. How was it?
It was terrible of course.
Bonus: Describe a bad sexual experience you admit was your fault.
After breaking up with a boyfriend I was out at a bar with a few friends and ran into an old acquaintance who had been trying to get me to go out with him previously. I had always said no because I thought he was too young. Anyone younger than me was considered too young until more recent years. We had a few drinks and I went back to his place with him. We fooled around a bit and were well into it when we stopped. I just wasn’t into him, I was still stuck on the ex-boyfriend and wasn’t really giving him the attention I should have. In retrospect, I shouldn’t have left with him at all. Sometimes we are able to jump right back on the horse, but sometimes we just aren’t.
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