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So, my Sinful Sunday pic this past Sunday. Did you see it? Did it weird you out? I won’t repost it here but, for those who have not yet seen it and would like to, you can follow the link to take you to Crimson Splendour.

To be honest, I’ve had this picture idea for a while but hadn’t found the courage to do it, and although I think it turned out to be one of my best pictures I also think it may well be one of my most controversial. I can tell people have issue with it by the lack of comments and messages about it. My Sinful Sunday posts always generate some love and comments, but not this week. For some reason people tend to get weirded out by menstruation, something they consider to be a pesky monthly visitor.

I know some women get terrible cramping or nausea when they are on, or just about to be on, their periods. I can understand not feeling sexy or wanting to be sexually active when they aren’t feeling well. I wouldn’t want to have sex if I had those side effects with my periods. I’m lucky in that regard though. Aside from the scarlet red that flows between my legs I wouldn’t know it was happening. There has never been a cramp or pain or other ill effect from my period. Several years ago I started the practice of using a calendar to keep track of it as I’ve been surprised more times than I’d like by the appearance of a red spot, or more, on my undies. Although I am quite happy with the way they are I wouldn’t complain about a little heads up when it’s about to arrive.

One thing about my sex drive, I am just as horny when I am menstruating as I am any other time of the month, maybe even more so if that’s possible. I’m like a cat in heat when I have my period. My whore moans hormones go crazy and I am ready to pounce on just about any man within arms reach. Thank goodness I still have some of my wits about me.

I’ve often wondered if other women feel the same way during their time of the month. Some certainly must. I can’t believe that I am the odd one out on this. I was thinking about it the other day and I believe that my sex drive gets a boost from knowing that I am not pregnant when things start to flow. There is something more to it though. Menstruating is purely a female action. We can shed our insides, bleed every month, and still stay standing. It brings to mind a well known song, “I am woman hear me roar… I am strong, I am invincible, I am woman.”

When I was in my early teens I read a story from one of my sister’s magazines that has stuck with me. The young woman in the story was a play toy for the local football team. When she was menstruating though, none of the guys would go near her. Then she found a young man who didn’t care that she was on her period. He did the same things with her as he would do any other time. The last scene of the story was him going down on her, licking and fingering and eating away, on the back seat of a bus heading home after a game. She was on her period.

I loved that story. It was a revelation that men could, or would, play with me while I was on my period. Problem is though, many men are like those football players. They steer clear of you when you have your period. They think the “blood” is messy and dirty and don’t want any part of it. Truth is there is nothing harmful about playing while a woman is on her period. To quote Wikipedia, “Unless a woman has a blood borne illness, menstrual fluid is harmless. No toxins are released in menstrual flow, as this is a lining that must be pure and clean enough to have nurtured a baby. Menstrual fluid is no more dangerous than regular blood.”

Even in my world of kink and BDSM, where I wouldn’t have thought this was an issue, I have found fewer men who will play with a menstruating woman’s vagina than when I was dating more vanilla men. I find it odd that a man will cut you, stick needles in you, and enjoy blood play that way but won’t go near your vagina when it flows red. What’s the deal? Seems so silly and juvenile. If intercourse is part of your play then he should be wearing a condom. It will protect him from the unrealistic harm of your menstrual flow just as it protects from real threats such as sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy. If he doesn’t wear a condom because you are monogamous and trust each other, why does that go out the window when you are menstruating? The menstrual flow is no more harmful than saliva or regular pussy juices.

Stop being weirded out by menstruation. Throw an old towel down and have at it.

 

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“It is courage, courage, courage, that raises the blood of life to crimson splendour.”
~ Horace

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Why should I dress the same or wear my hair the same when even my pussy doesn’t look the same every day?



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So, here we are, another wonderfully Wicked Wednesday to celebrate. This Wednesday I have the honour of sharing the artwork of a friend, The Artist. He was inspired, to some extent, by the Pussy Pride Project and the Great Wall of Vagina. I struggled with how to present these pieces to you, and in the end thought the words of Artist Wife may be best…

“After he read of the Pussy Pride Project he was wondering about pussy caricatures. He is a professional artist and was wondering about an approach to depicting the beauty of the pussy in a non-goofy caricatured way. In as much caricatures are usually pushed facial features– what do you push when it’s your crotchal region and still be you? If someone was to be poetic about their pussy, is that translatable to caricature? Can an artist happily depict someone’s pussy and not come off as dysmorphic? Or perhaps happily celebrate the dysmorphia? He is curious about exploring this. He is an over all admirer , like most men (LOL) but he is an artist inspired as well. Can a guy do it justice? Do you think caricatures would be interesting–artist to artist?”

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After her initial email I responded with an I’m in! What can I do to help? The idea excited me too. I couldn’t wait to see what he had in mind, how he could translate the beauty of the pussy into caricature form.


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Just as what you see when you look in the mirror as opposed to what I see when I look at you, it is impossible for everyone to see or feel the same on a piece of art (regardless the form or subject matter). That is what makes art so fantastic.


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Artist Wife and I saw different things in these initial offerings. I noted that they could be like our own erotic Rorschach test. What do you see?

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When I first heard of Molly’s Pussy Pride Project I knew I wanted to participate. I am far from shy, as my many pics and stories around here can attest, but although I have always been proud of what my pussy can do I’ve never been very fond of its visual appeal.

I have Angiokeratoma of Fordyce. Doesn’t sound very pretty does it? Angiokeratomas of Fordyce. Yuck! Basically angiokeratomas are small dark reddish or purple raised spots, or blood blisters, composed of surface blood vessels (dilated capillaries). There is no definite cause for them that I could find, but it is a condition that is much more common in men than women.

Sometimes there are a bunch of spots that are big and raised, but at more often times there are barely any to be seen. It changes based on my cycle and blood pressure. When I was pregnant with my son my blood pressure became so high they couldn’t give me any more meds and I had to be hospitalized. The spots were very big and tender then. I was so worried when I was pregnant that something was very wrong but my doctor assured me that nothing was. I had them for years and there was never any mention of them by my doctor when having my regular examinations. If he sees them as a non-issue I figure it’s about time I do too.

Nobody has ever said anything about them. To be honest, I couldn’t say whether a guy has ever even noticed. It’s true what they say about being blind to everything but the fact that you want to have sex with this woman and she wants to have sex with you too. Or maybe more women have them than research suggests so guys just think it’s normal.

For me it is normal, and that’s the thing of it really. We get so caught up in trying to be like everyone else, look like everyone else, look like those “super” models who are in reality no reflection of what the average woman of this world looks like. There are big women, small women, short, tall, skinny, thick, blonde, brunette, redhead, black, white, brown, and the list goes on and on. There are as many different kinds of women as there are pebbles on a beach, and each one of those women has a pussy that is uniquely hers. This one is uniquely mine.

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