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Molly wrote about a Fucktoy Friday Task she was given a while back that involved purchasing an item at a local hardware store and using it to make herself cum. You can read about her task and how she completed it HERE.

There are plenty of things that can be perverted at stores like Home Depot. The challenge is to think outside of the box, to bypass the obvious choices. What are obvious choices? I would think screwdrivers and the like with nice round handles would be rather obvious and expected. One of the things I purchase at my local hardware store are little rubber o-rings. They work great on the nipples. You can see them in a previous post HERE.

Then at a recent Munch one of the men brought in a package of clothes pegs he had picked up at a dollar store. They were big and clumsy, and the grip wasn’t great, but the thought behind them was good. The partner he had planned on using them on was new to kink and had never tried clamps of any sort before. He didn’t want to start her out with something that was too much for her and give her a bad experience.

This made me wonder what I could find at a dollar store. It is a great place to start rather than spending a lot of money on items you may not enjoy enough to spend that kind of money on. A few bucks at a dollar store and you can try a variety of items and figure out which are worth investing good money in.

Yesterday I went to the Dollar Tree down the street for the Dollar Store Challenge. There were a ton of items you could have some kinky fun with. I won’t post all the pictures but trust me, there were a lot more than what I am posting. I’ve grouped the items by category although you can use some of the items in different ways, or ways that could fall into more than one category.

Go out to one of your local stores and see what you can find to play with.

Which one of these do you think I purchased for myself?


Impact Play:

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rulers, for the scholarly

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do you like to get paddled?

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for the “little” girl

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cat toy is actually a bamboo cane in disguise

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Sensation Play:

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toothpaste (the mint kind)

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a cheap sewing tool, similar to a Wartenberg Wheel


Wax Play:
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Insertable Sensations:

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pop in the freezer for added sensation

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a unique sensation to be full of marbles


Clamps:
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Binding & CBT:

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tie those puppies up or make your own flogger

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Accessories:

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a leather “Princess” collar





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MKINYK. My kink is not your kink. Most people say it the other way, your kink is not my kink, or YKINMK. I say mine isn’t yours because mine is what I know about. I don’t know what your kink is. Maybe it is my kink, but likely it isn’t because you’ve never mentioned it to me or taken any interest in mine. Well, in some of mine. You’re probably all about some of them, since many are, but because they are so common place it isn’t really much topic for discussion either.

Is there a point when a kink becomes vanilla? There must be. I mean, some people consider having sex in any position other than missionary kinky. I used to think doggy style was uber kinky (yeah, I was young and naïve ok, give me a break). Now it’s just another position. I used to never suck cock. Never. Ever. I know, you’re shocked. It’s ok, I do it during most sexual encounters now a days. It is quite rare for me not to actually. So although I did consider it a kink at one time I don’t anymore. Don’t get me wrong, it excites the hell out of me, but it isn’t something I would consider a kink. To me it is basically a vanilla activity. I can kink it up though. I can use my fingers, tongue, teeth, even fruit, to add to the basic blowjob technique. You’ve never tried fruit? Come over I’ll demonstrate some time.

Some people consider anal sex to be a kink, either wanting to give it or receive it. Taboo might be another word used to describe it. Although many people do it, there is still a vast majority of people who won’t, or do but just won’t admit it. I quite enjoy it but I don’t do it all the time. For me it is a kink. It isn’t the idea of a nice hard cock in my ass that’s the kinky part. It’s the moment of penetration, the first deep push, when the pain mingles with the pleasure. That’s the kink factor for me, that I love those moments.

My biggest kink, you ask? I’m not sure, probably wax play. I know this isn’t your kink, otherwise you would have obliged me by now. It isn’t something the majority do and there is a pain factor to it. A hot,IMG_4152 soothing, exciting pain. It is definitely a kink of mine. My multitude of pictures with wax dripping over various parts of my body would attest to that. It is also something I have a hard time finding a partner for. Some of the kinkiest of men still seem to have issue with pouring hot wax on me. If finding a partner is such a difficult task its got to be a kink.

Kink is like anything else. Religion, politics, the meaning of life, how you get the caramel inside the Caramilk bar. If we all had the same opinions and experiences what would there be to discuss or learn? I enjoy a good flogging but it isn’t a kink of mine, not yet. I could take it or leave it. It hasn’t sent me to subspace, or even got me close. I actually find myself thinking all sort of odd things when I am being flogged. It’s not my kink but it is a kink of many of my friends. It is a kink of the man who’s flogged me. I like watching him show others techniques to be better at flogging. I like watching someone get flogged. I like learning the differences between floggers and whips and the materials they can be made of. These things interest me and I wouldn’t have known anything about them if it wasn’t for somebody else’s kink.

Being dominant is far from being my kink. A strong, capable Dom is super sexy to me. Sub or slave men are something I don’t quite understand as I consider my role to be the submissive. I was at a party a while back that catered to submissive men. It was interesting to see the variations of their kinks and their submissive or slave natures. At one point two of them were told to worship my feet. It felt nice, but I couldn’t get over the fact that they were kneeling at my feet, massaging and licking, and asking if they were pleasing Mistress. I am no Mistress. That part of it made me feel uncomfortable. Daddy (not my Daddy, I don’t have one) came over and asked me if I would like to fuck one of them. No, was my quick response. Later when he asked me why I had to admit that I like big Domly men and that man isn’t one. He is a nice enough guy, but that just isn’t my kink. It’s fine for him and the women who like it, it just isn’t for me.

MKINYK, YKINMK, and thank heavens it’s not! We’d be a very dull bunch if we all liked the same things now wouldn’t we? Imagine going out to a party where everyone wanted to be bent over a spanking stool. Who would spank them? We’d all be there lining up to be the one getting spanked!


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For those of you who are new, I have a bit of a kink regarding my nipples and there are many a pic of them posted here on this blog. Pegs, bands, hot wax, alligator clips, bamboo sticks and the like… LOVE them all!

My current fascination is with hot wax. There is something about it, the anticipation after the candle is lit, not knowing where or when the wax will fall, the hot flash of pain as the first drop lands on my sensitive skin, the warmth that spreads as the wax covering grows. Each step fueling the fire inside and bringing me closer to that wonderful orgasmic release.

I am working on an art project. Wax nipple roses mounted in a frame. The idea came from a friend on FetLife, a joke initially, and the idea stuck with me. The whole concept isn’t complete as yet as I am unsure of how to mount them in a permanent fashion (ideas anyone?),but I am having fun trying new kinds of candles and shades of wax.

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Green wax number one was a bit of a dud. Turns out the dark vibrant green was only an outer coating surrounding a white base. It still felt wonderful, of course, but what a disappointment.

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Green wax number two was much better. It was a beautiful spruce green colour. The richness of colour doesn’t show in this picture but I quite like the way it looks with the hot wax cooling on the surface showing the different colour variations from the different levels of cooling and the candle with it’s just blown out wick.

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Red wax is a favorite of mine. So vibrant and exciting. Surprisingly this is one I can drip very close to my skin, almost touching, and it doesn’t burn or irritate. Must get some more of these lovely red candles!


Click the Wicked Wednesday link to see what others have to say about nipples this week.

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One year! Stella Kiink is one year old today! I know this may seem paltry to some of you who have been blogging for years, but for me it’s a big deal. I wasn’t sure I could make it a month let alone a year, and now I am already planning things for the coming year.

When I began blogging it was more of a challenge than a true desire to blog. A friend and I were discussing the merits of 50 Shades of Grey (I know, laugh away), and he said I could do better. After reading it I am sure I could in some respects, but I also know he could do much better if he was so inclined as well. I believe I am a far better editor than I am a writer and the thought of writing a book is quite overwhelming to me at the moment. Editing one can be difficult enough at times. I do hope to write one in the future, but for now my little blog suits me just fine.

I wanted to write something fabulous for Wicked Wednesday, really I did, but being at the cottage the last few days with no internet, along with the problems I’ve been having with WordPress on my phone, it hasn’t quite worked out. I am looking forward to reading everyone else’s dirty talk though. Wasn’t it nice of Marie to have you all talk dirty for me this week? Haha… Maybe I will find some inspiration here for another week.

I thought that today, in honour of my first anniversary blogging as Stella Kiink, I would share a few of my favourite photos from the past year. I hope you enjoy and stick around for year two.

Love,
Stella

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Release

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Sloshed

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Waxed

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Playful


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We had some more fun with wax

Feel the burn, he said

and I did
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Happy 1st anniversary to Rebel’s Wicked Wednesday meme! We thought we would light a candle in celebration and enjoy a first of our own…

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Then we decided to have a party of our own with the candle as our guest of honour…

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First one nipple…

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Then the other…

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Then my pussy wanted to play too!

I am looking forward to more Wicked Wednesday adventures. Click below to see how others are being wicked this Wednesday, you may even decide to join the fun yourself. 😉

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