I’ve been contemplating doing this since first hearing about it last year. I’m all for plans and goals and getting things done. Well, I normally am but have laxed a lot in the last while. Time to get back on track and 101 Things In 1001 Days just might be the way to do that. In addition to being SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, Timely) goals, posting on my blog for everyone to see should help in further motivating me.
I hope to have my page posted on Molly’s blog under the meme page The 101 in 1001 Group Listings. Links to the posts of Molly and other sexy bloggers can be found there. Check them all out and join in yourself.
101 Things in 1001 Days
Starting date: April 4, 2013
End Date: December 31, 2015
Goals completed so far: 14
Goals in progress: 22
Goals scheduled: 3
Goals failed: 0
*progress last updated December 30/13
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BLOGGING PROJECTS
1. Update my about me page for the StellaKiink blog. (0/1)
2. Write a piece for Molly’s Pussy Pride project. (2/1) *COMPLETED April 8/13
3. Write a piece for Mia’s Fellatio project. (2/1) *COMPLETED May 23/13
4. Participate in NaBloPoMo 2014. (0/1)
5. Participate in NaBloPoMo 2015 for two months. (0/2)
6. The Sex Alphabet Project (3/26) ~ in progress
7. Do the 30 Days of Kink. (0/30)
8. 50 weeks of TMI Tuesday. (15/50) ~in progress
9. 100 weeks of Wicked Wednesday. (32/100) ~ in progress
10. Complete 7 more pieces for the Becoming series, for a total of 10. (1/7) ~ in progress
11. Celebrate the first anniversary of the blog. (1/1) *COMPLETED August 28/13
12. Post 5 audio posts to blog. (0/5)
13. Have a guest blog post each month (11/30) ~ in progress
14. Increase blog viewership average to 100 per day. Started at 30. (1/1) *COMPLETED October 2013, currently averaging 146 per day
15. Reach 50,000 total blog views. Started at 7,205. (0/1)
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WRITING
16. Submit at least two pieces for publishing. (0/2)
17. Get paid to write at least two pieces. I recently learned that getting paid to write a piece is not the same as getting it published. (1/2) ~ in progress
18. Start writing a novel. (0/1) ~ in progress
19. Take two writing classes, either on-line or at a local college. (0/2)
20. Write something every other day. Not specifically for the blog, just in general. Without practice, without effort, I will never improve, I will never write that great novel. 🙂 (90/500) ~ I seem to be failing miserably at this task. I should be around 135 by now.
21. Participate in NaPoWriMo 2015. (0/1)
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PHOTOGRAPHY PROJECTS
22. Join in Dee’s Scavanger Hunt with 10 pictures/places. (0/10)
23. Post for Sinful Sunday at least once a month. (20/33) ~ in progress
24. Do an erotic advent calendar (0/1) ~set for December 2014
25. Start and complete a 365 photography project – ME. (0/365) ~ set to begin March 18, 2014
26. Start and complete a 365 photography project – THE BOY. (0/365) ~ set to begin May 2, 2014
27. Take erotic photos of each sexual partner during the 1001 days. (3/3) ~ in progress
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SOCIALIZE & SELF PROMOTION
28. Attend Eroticon 2014 & 2015. (0/2) ~ You can help sponsor me for this event HERE or HERE.
29. Attend a Tweep-up. (0/1)
30. Submit to eLust every month in 2014. (0/12)
31. Attend 15 munches. (8/15) ~ in progress ~ Considering I am now the host of our local munch, I am going to go out on a limb and say that successfully completing this task is a certainty. 🙂
32. Reach 1001 twitter followers. Started at 328. (0/1)
33. Create a badge for blog. (0/1) ~ in progress
34. Design and print business cards. (0/1)
35. Attend two Club Oasis events. (0/2)
36. Attend two events at Subspace Dungeon Studio. (0/2)
37. Attend Torture Garden Toronto 2014. (0/1)
38. Attend Toronto’s Everything To Do With Sex show. (0/1)
39. Attend a sex show/event in another city. (0/1)
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OTHER SEXY STUFF
40. Have an orgasm every day for National Orgasm Month, October. (0/31) ~ set for October 2014
41. Experience my first full on DP. (0/1)
42. Have a minimum of two threesomes (or moresomes) each year, with at least one FFM as I was too naive in the last one. (0/6)
43. Sign a contract with a new student and maintain for at least one year. (0/1)
44. Make a decent squirting video. (0/1)
45. Break in my strap-on with some pegging. (2/1) *COMPLETED August 21/13
46. Write a list of all my sexual partners. (0/1)
47. Purchase, or be gifted, two sets of Nipple Charm jewelry. (0/2)
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SELF IMPROVEMENT
48. Make a speech in front of people. I was asked to do the Welcome to the family speech for my brother’s wedding next month. (1/1) *COMPLETED May 11/13
49. Attend a silent retreat weekend. (0/1)
50. Go to a nudist resort (0/1)
51. Update my resume and post to an online job board such as Workopolis or Monster. (1/1) *COMPLETED June 13/13
52. Find a real job, with three weeks’ vacation and flexible hours. (1/1) *COMPLETED September 9/13
53. Have a professional boudoir photography session. (0/1)
54. Join Toastmasters again. I need to get better (i.e. actually do it) at speaking in front of people. (0/1)
55. Write a list of 50 things that make me happy. (0/1)
56. Write a list of 25 things I like about myself, my life. (0/1)
57. Finish ‘The Ethical Slut’ and return it. (0/1) ~ in progress
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PERSONAL HEALTH
58. Lose at least 40 lbs. (0/40) ~ in progress
59. Walk for an hour 3 times a week. (0/135)
60. Exercise 3 x weekly beginning 2014, in addition to the walking. (0/100)
61. Exercise specifically to flatten stomach and tone arms in 2013. (0/31)
62. Get back to meditating. Start with a 21 day meditation series. (0/21)
63. Attend a reiki share every other month (0/16)
64. Participate in the walk for brain cancer research/awareness 2014 & 2015 (0/2)
65. Keep up with kegel exercises. 5 days a week for 50 weeks (0/250)
66. Bring blood pressure under control and eliminate medication. (0/1)
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PAMPERING & GENERAL FUN STUFF
67. Have a 1 ½ hr massage on my birthday each year. I have already done this for my birthday this year. (0/2)
68. Read the complete Sleeping Beauty series by Anne Rice, originally written under the pseudonym A.N. Roquelaure. (0/3) ~ in progress
69. Read ‘The Story of O’ (0/1) ~ in progress
70. Have a relaxing bath each month (1/33) ~ in progress
71. Get a professional bra fitting and bra. (0/1)
72. Watch The Secretary and Preaching To The Perverted. (0/2)
73. Get a professional pedicure 6 times a year, each year. (5/18) ~ in progress
74. Watch the sun rise and set on the same day. (0/1)
75. Go to Las Vegas. (0/1)
76. Go on an all-inclusive one week vacation. (0/1)
77. Take a hot air balloon ride. (0/1)
78. Update my list of qualities I am looking for in a partner. (1/1) *COMPLETED December 30/13
79. Self-manicure with polish once a month. (5/33) ~ in progress
80. Cover up angel tattoo with Bodhi tree tattoo. Get foot tattoo touched up at the same time. (0/2)
81. Go to Lilydale Assembly each year. (0/3) ~ missed 2013
82. Attend a live theatre show. (0/1)
83. Attend a concert each year. (0/3)
84. Go out to the cinema to see 10 movies. (2/10) ~ in progress
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ORGANIZING & CRAFTY STUFF
85. Clean out the jungle that is my clothes. Give to good will. (1/1) *COMPLETED July 19/13
86. Clean out the boy’s room. Put aside clothes for quilt, give remainder of clothes and toys to good will. Since he’s a toddler I will have to do this more than once.(1/2) ~ in progress
87. Make a quilt. (0/1)
88. Clean out storage closets. Sell or give reasonable items to good will. (0/1)
89. Knit a couch throw/blanket. (0/1)
90. Create a family cook book and have printed copies made for holiday presents. (0/1)
91. Participate in the Fall craft sale with Candi again this year. (1/1) *COMPLETED November 16/13
92. Make items to keep on hand for house warmings , hostess gifts, and such. (1/1) *COMPLETED December 2013
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FAMILY LIFE
93. Take the boy out on a whale watch boat ride (0/1)
94. Sign the boy up for a dance or gymnastics class, a physical activity of some sort. (2/1) *COMPLETED December 15/13 – indoor multi-sport class Fall2013, learn to skate Winter 2014
95. Take the boy to the park twice a week when the weather is suitable. (11/100?) ~ in progress
96. Take the boy on a train ride. (1/1) *COMPLETED July 28/13
97. Go swimming with the boy once a month (0/33)
98. Put my cookbooks to good use. Cook a new recipe at least once a month. (3/33) ~ in progress
99. Take the boy to his first day of school (0/1)
100. Go on vacation with the boy to Lego Land or Sesame Street. (0/1)
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FINALE
101. Put on, or attend, a big New Year’s celebration 2015. Coincidently, the last day of my 1001 days. (0/1)
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