There is much more to Domination and submission than just the actions. You have to go beyond the actions to the feelings and intent. The intent without action is meaningless, as is the action without intent. There has to be genuine desire and willingness of both.
Some relationships may appear to an outsider to be D/s in nature, their actions could certainly suggest so. Are they truly such? They could be, but they could just as easily not be. Other relationships show no signs of D/s to unsuspecting onlookers, but turn out to be some of the strongest you will find. How can that be their dynamic if we never see it?
We need to know the feeling and intent behind their actions to determine that. We need to see more than just their actions to the outside world. We need to know their story.
This series will explore such relationship dynamics and stereotypes. I will give you a brief description of what we see (with words usually, or pictures), ask some questions regarding what we wonder may be going on, then I will tell you two different stories that could relate to the couple in question.
What do you think their story is? If you are inclined to partake in this people watching game, please feel free to add a link to your own story in the comments section of my post. If you have an idea for what we see, please comment below or email me and I will add it to the page.
1. 1950’s Style
2. The Swinger Set
3. Plain Jane